WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES: EXPANDED NEW EDITION - A Guide for Women Who Are Too Nice

Such a good read!

Extremely truthful and insightful. Tells you what you need to hear rather than what you wanted to hear. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who centers herself, is fun loving and comfortable in her own body. I’ve learned a lot and agreed with a lot in this book.

Both are similar - for me personally the first ''why men love bitches'' takes about big concepts with a few examples, and the second ''why men marry btiches'' , has less big concepts and more detail to each concept. my opinion was you need to read both! Its like going into a war knowing the enemies battle plan! its exceptional. however....the hard part = actually applying these in real life. but you must. follow as the book states. dont think just follow. you need read them in order. reading only ''why men marry bitches'' just wouldnt make sense, you need the concepts in the 1st boo WHEN WILL THIS BECOME AUDIOBOOK! IT NEEDS IT!

I am a 'nice' girl - always looking to please others first and generally be 'nice'; not that it's wrong to be this way - but what the author highlights is that it's even nicer to put one's self first, to be nicer to oneself. I love this book. I love this author. The message is extremely empowering and written in a humourous and insightful way. It basically tells women to stop trying so hard to please men; to be their authentic selves and push forward in life with self-esteem, self-belief and confidence. And of course in the battle of the sexes, it's nice to have an advantageous position by getting to understand the male mindset (which the author elaborates on in plenty)!

This book is great for women who have struggled in prevous relationships to make their voices heard. It gives you the confidence to realise what you want from a relationship and to pursue that. The style is funny and very easy to read. It is perhaps not advisable to follow every example religiously but it will give you a confidence-boost and some tips for how to achieve a relationship that it fulfilling for both you and your partner.

Loved the way this book was written, its very tongue in cheek but when reading you can actually identify with what the book is saying, can either place a situation in your own life or in your friends around you and suddenly your thinking .....so thats where I went wrong!,..... or I got that right but at the time I didn't even know it (o hum stuck with him now, lol). Its a book that once you pick up to read you wont be able to put down. A must read for all women, it'll enlighten you to what guys are thinking (they really are from mars and speak a totally different language - this book translates). It was so good that I bought her other book "why men love bitches", which my daughter grabbed first to read. Totally recommend for those women who find men most confusing - I laughed so much I cried.

Was recommended by a friend to read it. The title put me off at first, but after reading it in 2 days I couldn't believe how helpful this book was! Would recommend to all women to read it and have already done so. It is a definite must read if you have a track record of many failed relationships in the past. Personally, this changed the way I see men and relationships. Had I not read it I would be very poor in the understanding of dynamics in a relationship. It is one of the best, if not the best, book you will ever read about relationships. It helped me, and it WILL help you!

This is a brilliant book which clearly spells out how women are often deliberately undermined and made to feel insecure by both the media and men as a tactic to manipulate them. I have got enormous confidence from reading it, (and I'm someone who was confident before). Chock full of consciousness raising and useful practical advice, words really can't do justice to it. IMO, it's even better than it's predecessor; Why Men Love Bitches. All I can really say is; THIS BOOK WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

La verdad me gustó más ésta versión que “por que los hombres aman a las cabronas”, es divertido y tan fácil de leer que lo terminé en un fin de semana. Está bueno pero lo recomiendo como complemento de Not Your Mother’s Rules

Very good book… must read !! Especially for younger adults , I wish I followed this advice ages ago. Thanks

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I first read "Why Men Love Bitches" before reading this, on the suggestion from a friend who swore by it (she followed it throughout the dating process with her now-husband, who, coincidentally, is a gorgeous man). On such a great recommendation, I had to at least read it and check it out. I won't go into great lengths about it, since this is a review of the second book, but it is an incredible read that will seriously change any nice girl's life!! Having loved the first book so much, and being that I do hope to get married someday soon, I went ahead and ordered the second book, this one. It was at least as good as Argov's first book, if not even better. First off, I need to address the basic idea behind this book (as well as her first), because I think there are probably a lot of women out there who will be put off by the title and dismiss it just for that. These books are not really about being what people typically think of for the term she uses - it is not about being mean, rude, spiteful, bitter, or any of those things. What it really is about is just loving yourself, maintaining your dignity and pride, living and loving your life, and how doing all of that will earn the respect of any man (as the author says and I do agree with, no man is going to marry a woman he does not respect). The book is brilliant because most women (myself included, in the past) believe that once they meet a man they are into, they need to put their lives on hold and make him their number one priority to keep him around. Ms. Argov advises the exact opposite, to keep living your life in a way that makes you happy, and that men will actually respond to that. That is basically what this book (as well as her first) is about - putting yourself first. Women are also made to believe that mindblowing sex (and the sooner, the better) is also important to "snagging" a man. Again, completely wrong, and this book instead stresses the importance of appealing to his sexual imagination, which basically means him being sexually attracted to you, but also not getting everything off the bat and instead "giving" yourself sexually in increments, so that you appeal to his imagination and he gets to enjoy the chase. I have to say though, even though the principles behind her advice are all great, I will not lie - some of the things you have to do, they're hard!! It's hard to not obsess when the man you like doesn't call for a few days (and he most likely will test you this way, because that's what they do - they test you to see how you'll react). It's hard not to ask why you haven't heard from him, where he was last night, is he seeing anyone else, etc. etc. It's also hard to not sleep with a man too soon that you are really attracted to (especially when he is trying to get you to). But if you can force yourself to stay disciplined, it WILL work. Now I am going to provide a personal testimonial. Not only do I know someone who has used Ms. Argov's advice to now be married to the man of her dreams, but I am currently dating someone that I have been using the exact principles advised in Argov's two books. I have only been out with this man six times now - still kind of early to know how it will end, so I can't tell you that, but I can tell you how well it's gone so far. Last night (my most recent date with this man) I went out with him and do you know what happened? I get to his place (it was my turn to go to him, I do NOT just go to him every time like I might have before discovering these books), and he had prepared a candlelight dinner for me. Prior to my arrival, he called to find out what kind of food I like/ don't like, he wouldn't let me help prepare it or clean up afterward. Sixth date, mind you - I know women who are married who have never had their husband prepare them any kind of dinner, let alone a romantic one. He also told me (before I left) how unbelievably attracted to me he was (not the first time either - I as well as others who have read this book know that part of that is because of me being somewhat "unattainable"), how he always has a good time with me, and how interesting he thinks I am - he said most women, he likes the kissing and all of that but after that he usually doesn't want them around, but that with me, he actually likes my company. My response? I just smiled, and said "Thanks. You know I always have fun spending time with you too" (others who have read these books know why "fun" is such an important word). I mean, the guy is practically gushing all over me - and not while trying to grope or score with me while saying all this (very critical fact). It's important to note that this man is sexy, successful, and could probably have just about any woman he wants. And I truly believe it is because I have been following the basic principles Argov presents in her book. I can also tell you in the past, when I did NOT do what is suggested in this book, things did not exactly work out. I was always that girl who tried too hard but got taken advantage of, who gave my heart and didn't get much back, who basically did all the work if it did get to the point of a relationship, or many times, before things got too serious, was told, "There's just something missing", etc. etc. So I am a total believer in Sherry Argov's books. I know I've written a lot but I want to make it clear to all of you how truly amazing this (and her other book) really is. This really is what to read to "convince the man of your dreams that you are the woman of his dreams". It works, it works, it works, it works, it works! I can't stress it enough. I hope every marriage-minded woman out there goes and reads this book because it truly changed my life. If there were a dating religion out there to follow, this would be the dating bible!!!